Clearing My Mind

If I don't let it out I'm just gonna scream!!!!!

Just a Friend 2010 (Not to be confused the 2002 version)

Friend Zone - "The situation where the female has begun to view a male as a friend only and not a potential suitor, a psychological classification supposedly exceptionally difficult to undo."

What is it about women that causes them to feel compelled to place men in the supposed "impenetrable" friend Zone?

I've had my fare share of encounters with the friend zone, actually more than I'd like to admit. But there are a few things that have boggled my mind, why are women so insistent on not crossing the line between friend and lover. They refuse to take that risk. Constantly worried of ruining the friendship. What is it about guys that we're not afraid to take that risk. You know what they say, the greater the risk, the greater the reward. Come on if you can be such great friends what makes you think that a relationship with that person won't be an even greater experience. I feel you have the same chance of ruining the friendship as you do the relationship. By not taking the chance you could be missing out on what could be the greatest thing to ever happen to you. There's a saying "Men kick friendship around like a football, but it doesn't seem to crack. Women treat it like glass and it goes to pieces.", maybe girls need to have a guy mindset not just when it comes to sex but also relationship, you don't know that can happen til you give it a try. Here's a tip to all you guys who are stuck in the friendzone and are looking for a way out....this is very risky....personally I've only tried this once and it actually worked. What you have to do is put your friendship on the line. Let her know that you guys would be great together and being just friends won't work, and you have to end if.....like I said, it's a huge risk, but either one of two things will happen, thats the end of a friendship or she'll come to her senses and realize how she doesn't wanna lose you from her life and want to take the chance at being more than friends. If you wanna try this, then I wish you nothing but luck and hopefully happiness cause us good guys deserve it.